Difficulties and how to deal with it.

"This blog is entirelyly out of my personal experience and they are completely my own beliefs."

What happens when we face difficult situations in our life ?? Don't we panic ?? We all do. We get sad, we get annoyed, we feel down and much more. These are the human's own way of expressing the pain that one goes thru.

What is the best way to overcome these tricky situation ?? I am calling it as a tricky situation coz I feel so. Why I feel so is because, these situations are not permanent and at the same time can be very painful and may cause an individual to loose his or her cool completely for that span of time. So, now coming back to the ways to overcome. To know the best ways, first we have to understand what are the ways that we all use. Out of all those ways, we will try to find out which are the good ones and leave out the non reasonable ones.

We scream, mostly when we get annoyed or irritated. Don't we ? We all do. But, let's see it from a third person's point of view. Suppose you are passing by and you see a person shouting on somebody and abusing. Does it look or sound correct to you ? Answer is NO. Never. Then, why we do that ? We all do. Or at least most of us, with me also not being an exception. So, this is certainly not the best way to tackle such situation. Screaming - Striked out.

Next, what we do is we get violent. We in many cases cross the line and get violent. We try to use our force because of anger overflowing in our brains. Every great who took birth on this planet have sometime or the other mentioned - Anger is the biggest enemy of an individual. And rightly so. When we let anger get over our consciousness, we actually loose the war against forces trying to not let us behave humanly. So, anger can never be the solution. In fact once we calm down we always end up regretting about what we have done out of anger. So Anger - striked out.

Above were just the two examples where we see how we harm ourselves while trying to teach the other person a lesson.

Let's see a golden approach of handling such situation.

Breathe deeply, think, analyse and then decide. Don't jump on to conclusions. Now, every one will say, these things are easier said than done. Indeed they are. I agree completely. But, as the saying goes, nothing is impossible, if u try for it and try it right. So friends, try and keep yourself calm. Take wiser decisions and save yourself from humiliation and regret later.

And remember, To forgive someone is the biggest punishment you can ever give.

Thanks and Good Bye !!